rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 I'm supposed to be going with this guy today..but he never called me or anything..my question is should i call him or what? I don't want to seem needy but i really like this guy.. :sigh: Link to comment
Kalika Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Yeah I think you should call him and ask if you're still going out Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 but do i seem needy?..my mom was telling me don't call..so i'm sitting here confused...I made sure to tell this guy not to stand me up he said wont..smh Link to comment
Weeblie Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 I'd call him. I don't think it'll seem clingy. Besides it's better than wasting time, waiting to see if you'll be stood up. Pretend like you need to be reminded of the time or the location or something. Good luck! 1 Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 Lol...maybe i should give him another 18 mins.. :sigh: Link to comment
Weeblie Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 but do i seem needy?..my mom was telling me don't call..so i'm sitting here confused...I made sure to tell this guy not to stand me up he said wont..smh Oh wait... What exactly did he say about this date? What are the details? Link to comment
bigheart09 Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Um, just call him. There are no rules that the guys always has to call. Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 He said.. and i quote "We should set something up on saturday" (today)..i said ok give me a call..that was wednesday..i saw him on friday..and asked what are we doing saturday he said what do you want to do..i told him surprise me...then i was like i should be expecting a phone call from you..and please don't stand me up or i will go crazy.. smh... its now 7:16 Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 i don't have a problem calling i just don't want to seem needy..or deperate for a date..its just that i really like him.. Link to comment
Kalika Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Did he give a time he'd call? Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 nope....he didn't tell me no time Link to comment
Reluctant Rebuilder Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Was he supposed to call by a certain time? If not relax, give the boy some time. Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 lol ok.."relaxing" Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 trying to be positive.. Link to comment
Kalika Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 OK, first off he should have called you by now. He might be waiting for YOU to call him.. So who cares about looking needy? Just call him and say hey, are we still doing something tonight? If he backs out of it, just say okay that's all I needed to know. And hang up. 1 Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 OK, first off he should have called you by now. He might be waiting for YOU to call him.. So who cares about looking needy? Just call him and say hey, are we still doing something tonight? If he backs out of it, just say okay that's all I needed to know. And hang up. hmmm thanks Link to comment
Kalika Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Let us know what happens! Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 lol now i'm nervous about calling.. :sigh: Link to comment
Kalika Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 JUST GO CALL!!! It's not a big deal.. If you want it to go any further, you're going to have to learn how to express your needs without worrying about seeming needy or something. Edit - I have the same problem you do, but the only way to overcome it is to be forthright, and it feels a lot better in the end. Link to comment
Weeblie Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Yeah I agree...just call him. Next time be a little more forward about the timing though. Or at least be more forward about what you want to do. Some guys really suck at coming up with things to do. Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 what to say? lmao I was going to text and say " i was really looking forward to going out with u" Link to comment
Weeblie Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Nah...skip the texting. Call him! You could say, I thought of something we could do! Let's go see a movie! Or let's go to starbucks and get whatever. Or whatever it is that you'd like to do. Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 ok..:sigh: waiting one more min... Link to comment
rawkSTAR Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 my heart is pounding...i really wish he would call me Link to comment
Weeblie Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Ok keep waiting... But if you call him all this stress will be gone. Then you can either go out with him or call up another friend and have a good time. It's a win win situation. Link to comment
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