skyjuice Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 Hi There is a saying that "Living to the fullest is the best revenge." 1. What is your opinion? 2. Are you able to live to your best? Does the break up motivated you to live life to the fullest? 3. What do you do after a break up? Link to comment
Survictor Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 I agree with that saying. Noone likes a loser or someone that appears to be a loser. It is sooo unattractive. Are you likely to be attracted to someone who throws back their head and laughs and has interests, goals and projects?... or Are you likely to be attracted to someone whose head is cast downwards as is their mouth and eyes, shoulders hunched, pained expression, no interests, no goals, no projects?.... Even if you don't feel your best, you should try to look your best, seize new opportunities and never let the 'enemy' know inside you are breaking down... and wouldn't you know that soon, you are no longer breaking down inside and you actually start to be that fun filled, soulful, happy person that people want to be around! If you can't make it, fake it! lol. Link to comment
friscodj Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 I would change it to read, "Live your life to the fullest". No revenge...even if you only perceive such in your mind. As long as you hold onto the notion of "revenge" towards your ex, or gain motivation for your actions based on your ex, you're still attached to her and the situation, only from a different angle. To truly move on, you've got to let it go. All of it. Link to comment
D1886 Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 wow, friscodj, have you considered doing actual work for marriage/relationships......don't wanna kiss your *** but good stuff Link to comment
friscodj Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 wow, friscodj, have you considered doing actual work for marriage/relationships......don't wanna kiss your *** but good stuff Oh man...you're too kind...I'm just some guy out there in cyberspace trying to make sense of it all just like everyone else... I'm more than content doing what I can here on ENA. Reading and thinking about, being challenged by problems and other opinions helps me too, and is better than any payment I'd receive from a job...as is reading things like what you wrote here... Thank you. Link to comment
brando Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 well i guess some need to believe this in order to feel better after being dumped. I agree with Frisco 100 % let it go and stop this childish thinking of living better is a revenge tactic. Live better for you and no one else. Link to comment
D1886 Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 this whole forum, enotalone, is crazy, because people give advice, you read it, think about following it, hope to follow it, and even if you don't, it still helps to come back too. I'm still really sad about a break up, very very sad, wow, I dreamt about her last night, anyways, I just hope I get past it, I don't know, I miss the days without knowing of love, but just like that clip from southpark.......ha there's nothing I can do now, I already fell in love, now i have to move on, very very sad though Link to comment
D1886 Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 did I say I am really sad, so much Link to comment
skyjuice Posted November 23, 2006 Author Share Posted November 23, 2006 Hi Aw...don't be sad. Tomorrow is a better day. May be this link would help you. Link to comment
D1886 Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 ^^^^That was great advice, thank you Link to comment
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