mike51 Posted November 21, 2006 Share Posted November 21, 2006 Me and my girlfriend were together for two years and everything was going well, until she started to take me for granite. My friends have always noticed how well I have treated my girlfriend, and I would do just about anything for her. So when she did take me for granite, it would irritate me, and bring her more stress, so we went on a brake. She was also very stressed out because her dad and step mom just divorced, then her Dad decided to move to California and she would stay here and live in a friends house (She's 18 ). Shortly after we went on the brake we started treating eachother very well again, like things have always been. We get along great, have tons of chemistry, and always have fun no matter what were doing. The brake then carried on for over a month, and I got to the point were I had to know if she is ready to be together again. I told her that I would love to get back toghether with her, but that she would need to treat me well enough so that she didn't hurt me again with some of the things she did that bothered me. She said she still wasn't ready and that she still needed space, so we broke up. She tells me that she wants to just be friends for a while and see where things go. Also, she says that she wants me to date other women so that I know what else is out there, even though she says it will hurt seeing me with someone else. And lastly she said that we are not breaking up so that she can be done with me, but that she doesn't want a relationship with anyone right now because the responsibility just adds more stress on her. So yes, I do still do love her so much, and I hope everyday that we can be together again. So I really want to be with her again, but is that very likely? And I understand the best thing I can do is the NC, but will that show her that I don't care about her anymore? Any advice or comments are appreciated Thanks Link to comment
luvursmile Posted November 21, 2006 Share Posted November 21, 2006 Seems like she doesnt know what she wants. How old is she? Link to comment
smirkingvagabond Posted November 21, 2006 Share Posted November 21, 2006 He said she was 18... pretty young to know what she wants. But there are some mature kids out there these days. Link to comment
luvursmile Posted November 21, 2006 Share Posted November 21, 2006 Oh thanks, didnt see that part... Well, yeah 18 is too young to know what you want. When youre that age, you think you know everything (i know i did). I think you should give her space...let her figure out what she wants to do.. Link to comment
Japanfreak05 Posted November 22, 2006 Share Posted November 22, 2006 I'm going though somewhat of the same thing with my boyfriend. He's been taking me for granted and treating like I don't do anything. It's hard. But if it's ment to be, she will come around. Just yeah, give her some time. use this break to get yourself on track. She will soon know what she's missing. Link to comment
mike51 Posted November 22, 2006 Author Share Posted November 22, 2006 Thanks everyone for the help! I have a question about the No Contact rule, what if she calls me? Every now and then she calls or sends me a message because she says for right now she still wants to be good friends, which is obviously still hard for me. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now