signals...

[sportsfan20]

say you think a certain person likes you but probably has to ignore the feelings that their moving away soon if its college or whatever the case maybe..So what are some signs to look for when you're around that person to show?? like avoiding?? act like there not interested?

[idontakre6203]

I'd say you hit the nail on the head, buddy... People often fear it if they commit to a relationship or show their true feelings when they know it won't/can't last. It's just a sad ending for both of you, a forced seperation, two lovers going different ways... And believe me, half of all long distance relationships don't work out, *well* atleast...

 

I'm guessing you are a male, but I could be wrong. If it is a girl/guy (doesn't matter) I'd advise you to either:

 

a) become good friends with this person and ask them about their feelings...

 

b) avoid contact with this person and save a lot of stress and unwanted depression...

 

The choice is yours (heheh) but anyhow, good luck with this and keep us updated!

 

~idontkare~

[sportsfan20]

well I told this girl that I like her awhile back and she didn't say yes or no back just said that she didn't think she should start something with anyone that she's going off to college...well I also work with her and tonight was her last night meaning I won't see her period for a while now or longer. so I thought about atleast talking one more time online and tell her I hope she has fun in college and that i'm gonna miss her..plus tell her how I feel at the moment or should I just leave things alone here?

[sportsfan20]

well I went ahead and said something last night online..that I wanted to say something in person instead of over the computer but it was tough with that thought I won't see her around period for awhile. I hope she has a blast in college and i'm gonna miss her. even though her and I aren't together and who knows whats gonna happen in time but at this time I want to atleast be a friend instead of nothing at all...well her comment was " thanks" though I didn't expect much that she probably has to watch what she says at this moment..afterwards we just talked about college and whatever else.