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I'm shy also and with this girl that I like though she's away at college now where I don't see her but talk online....at the start when I saw her in person I got really nervous and couldn't talk w/o messing up. after talking a bit to her I got more comfortable but the nerves were still there. with this girl I've heard she's shy yet she's told me before she's not that much anymore where I think she's more outgoing type but who knows if she could still be in this kinda stuff anyway in person she just looked nervous like did the avoidance stuff or when walking past just looked the other way or looked forward but down. when I'd say sarcastic or silly stuff to her,she wouldn't say anything but gave me a bashful grin. to this day i'm still trying to figure out if she could like me or not but if those are clues well their ya go lol

how can you tell the difference if a guy/girl is not interested in a person period or is but is too shy where it looks like non interest?

with this girl i've known her for over a year now plus I also like her and she knows I like her because dummy me waited until the last second to tell her how I felt but with her going off to college soon (at the time) she said she didn't think she should start anything w/ going off. also if she had no interested at all you'd think she'd block me or something or don't even respond period.anyway that she's away at college I just talk to her over online. i'll have times where she will say BRB and bye if its not some 20 min. silence. for example last week couple of days right when i sent a message,she just happened to be getting ready to leave so she said hey,sorry but she had to go. Where other times she turns that away message on w/o saying a word in a middle of a convo,which I shouldn't let get to me. when I do talk to her though like asking questions or whatever she'll respond clearly and right away for the most part. Others times I know she's working on homework because she said,but she'll still respond back and all though later on (few times this has happened) she'd stop responding period which I know its harder to talk and work on homework at the same time.

maybe this is no big deal here but I was wondering if any of you do this while talking online... well I talked to this girl online last night. I'd ask a question and she'd respond clearly and right away. well bit later on she turned her away message on which said she was on the phone with a friend,but the thing is she didn't say brb or anything. later on when she turned it off I continued to talk and asked questions or whatever and she'd still respond clearly and right away. well she turned her away message on again saying she went to bed. yet she didn't say bye or anything. SO have any of you girls done stuff like this before?

is it possible for shy people to become no longer shy or stay it when it comes to certain things like liking someone?

anymore responses?

I like this girl that's kinda shy even though she can talk to friends..total strangers(customers) so her shyness isn't as bad anymore I guess. anyway I got all these mixed signals from work ( I work with her or used to now) where lead me to tell her that I liked her. well she said that she didn't want to start anything that she's going off to college plus wanted the summer to spend with friends. after all of that times when I saw her in person she'd give me a serious look or just look in a different direction..just didn't seem comfortable around me where times she just had to walk off and do stuff if I was alone..that she pretty much avoided me I guess,where she talks to everyone else w/o a problem. I also talk to her online,where I do most of the talking,but she responds back right away for the most part and is open most of the time when responses and you'd think if I was bothering at all or didn't want to talk to me she'd block me. anyway all of this,which gets me wondering if she was avoiding because she liked me,but didn't want to get too close for reasons or its the totally something else Well today this girl that I like came back to town,I guess for the weekend and helped out at the place, well it was the same where everytime her and I walked past she'd look down or in a different direction. I did say something like" it's been a long day" she barely responded by saying yeah and kinda grinned I guess. after closing we sat down to eat,thats when she arrived to help out for some huge banquet afterwards..well she joined us..one girl asked if theirs alot of hot guys at college and she said yes..others asked if she's been out with any guy from there or did anything and whatever else along those lines or likes someone from there..I don't know something like that haha..well she didn't even respond back..I know its hard to read but how would you..that she was just being shy plus that she could like me but didn't want to say it for reasons or their is someone and that I was sitting right there..didn't want to hurt my feelings?

have a few questions in which I need opinions on and if I sound confusing at all, sorry haha.... first, I know when a girl likes a guy she'll flirt and smile..well what are some signs a shy person might give if any?? next question..is it possible where after talking for several months to a shy person in person and/or online where you think they'd open up but end up continuing with the shyness? Last question..is it possible for a shy person to be really talkative with friends,total strangers(like customers in a workplace) yet act the total opposite with a certain someone where might be a sign of liking?

well I went ahead and said something last night online..that I wanted to say something in person instead of over the computer but it was tough with that thought I won't see her around period for awhile. I hope she has a blast in college and i'm gonna miss her. even though her and I aren't together and who knows whats gonna happen in time but at this time I want to atleast be a friend instead of nothing at all...well her comment was " thanks" though I didn't expect much that she probably has to watch what she says at this moment..afterwards we just talked about college and whatever else.

well I told this girl that I like her awhile back and she didn't say yes or no back just said that she didn't think she should start something with anyone that she's going off to college...well I also work with her and tonight was her last night meaning I won't see her period for a while now or longer. so I thought about atleast talking one more time online and tell her I hope she has fun in college and that i'm gonna miss her..plus tell her how I feel at the moment or should I just leave things alone here?

say you think a certain person likes you but probably has to ignore the feelings that their moving away soon if its college or whatever the case maybe..So what are some signs to look for when you're around that person to show?? like avoiding?? act like there not interested?

say a boy/girl was shy yet broke out of it where their able to talk to friends of course and to strangers but is it possible for the person to get shy again when it comes to liking a guy/girl?? if so what are some signs to look at like is avoidance one?? ummm say your alone with the person somewhere that their so nervous where they have to walk off because of being uncomfortable?

well she's been online the last few nights and I haven't said a word to her..decided not to talk anymore where I should try to forget about it..well part of me still wants to talk to her...would it be a good idea to talk to her again or keep it how i've been the past week by just ignoring..forgetting about it??

its probably pointless now,but I would like some opinions on this matter.....Well after months of getting mixed signals plus this girl is kinda shy.I told her that I like her,well she didn't really say yes or no on liking back but just said she didn't think she should start anything that she's leaving soon for college and maybe keep things how they are. another day on here I went ahead and said that its been great getting to know her that she's an awesome person and hope someday once she's gone for her and I to talk again if its on here or in person well her response was " we will sometime" I talk to her alot online but I pretty much do most of the talking like asking questions and such but she does respond back within seconds..min or 2 at times and is open with her answers depending what the topic is about. I work with this girl and the times i've seen her ever since she'll give me a serious expression once walking past or she'll just look in a different direction...like in a avoiding type of way...she just seems nervous around me.......is it possible that she does like me but that she's leaving soon she's just gonna avoiding the situation and her feelings?