Want to last longer in bed.

[Mousey010]

Hello, I am new to the forums and i am a 19 year old male. My name is Adam and i have been having sex since i was 17, and been masterbating since i was 14. I can remember seeing a porno for the first time at 14 and telling my friends about it and they said that "Beating the meat" Or so it was called back then was the cool thing to do. How kids of that age knew about masterbation back then blows me away..and the termenology that they used just makes me laugh to this day. Well Anyways, My problem is this. I am seeing this girl right now and we like to have sex quite often..But i feel that i am coming to my orgasm within minuets of penetration.

 

I have heard that this reason could be that ever since i have first started to masterbate (When i was 14) i had only done it to get to the point of my orgasm faster and faster as the feeling was "Godly" At that point, There is nothing i liked to do better, I would do it any chance that i got. I hear that since i did it so often, my body has been tought that its supposed to come to an orgasm that soon.

 

But now that i am older and want to last longer in sex...I am looking for new ways to make that happen. I am afraid of taking any pills for it, i just would like to know..Is there any "Natural" way of doing this to where i can work up to the point of lasting longer and longer in bed? What do i do? Is there anything anyone can suggest to me?

 

Thanks

[mccarleighp]

what you have to do is this when u r on your on start masterbateing when u feel like u r getting to the point stop do this every day the more u do it the longer it will take hope that of some help to u

[Siriana]

Make slow moves, not those very fast while having sex - maybe that will help - concentrate on the whole experience not just getting there. My ex used to do that and he could wait like forever. I guess he had to learn how to do it slowly because he was pretty big and otherwise it would hurt a lot.So, I think that it's not mission imposible.

And it's great to know that you want to improve - some guys just don't really care- they are impatient and don't know how to enjoy all the process - they are only after those last few seconds.