Twan Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 I'm a freshman in high school and this girl who is amazingly beautiful has been in my mind the past couple weeks. I have asked her a couple times to do things, but she's saying "I don't know". How can I get her to actually do something with me? Not sex...just go and see a movie or something. What can I offer to do with her that she would like? I told her I would give her a call and if that was alright....she said it was. What should I say? Thanks! Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 I would ask her what sort of things she likes to do, e.g. what music she listens to, has she got a favourite group, would she like to go and see ...... the group that's playing at the town hall/leisure centre or whatever, does she like pizza/pasta, chinese, indian, what movies does she like, who's her favourite film star, does she like going to museums, has she ever been on holiday abroad, etc. I'm sure you can come up with all sorts of things you could ask her. Don't forget to tell her who you like. Make it a two way conversation. Good luck Link to comment
Twan Posted May 21, 2006 Author Share Posted May 21, 2006 Well I just had a decent convo on AIM with her. How do you think it looks for me? me (12:30:57 AM): whats up her (12:31:18 AM): nothing her (12:31:23 AM): whatd you do tonight? me (12:31:30 AM): went to my friends house me (12:31:33 AM): kinda gay me (12:31:38 AM): whatd u do her (12:32:14 AM): babysat me (12:32:20 AM): oh me (12:32:23 AM): who do u babysit for her (12:32:30 AM): brothers me (12:32:40 AM): do u get paid her (12:33:04 AM): idk yet me (12:33:46 AM): how many brothers do u have her (12:33:58 AM): 3 me (12:34:06 AM): how old r they me (12:34:11 AM): i know u said one was 7 her (12:34:15 AM): yeah me (12:35:07 AM): wat about the other 2 her (12:35:22 AM): 10 and 11 me (12:36:13 AM): so what do u lk to do me (12:36:17 AM): besides cheerleaidng her (12:36:30 AM): hang out with friends me (12:37:14 AM): did anyone come over me (12:37:16 AM): when u were babysittin her (12:37:33 AM): yeah me (12:37:40 AM): who came by her (12:38:17 AM): carolyn mary and kristin me (12:38:39 AM): whatd u guys do her (12:40:57 AM): nothing me (12:41:04 AM): sounds fun me (12:41:21 AM): u ready for these finals her (12:41:23 AM): no her (12:41:29 AM): im on the phone me (12:41:42 AM): alright lemme know when ur done me (12:46:34 AM): well im goin to bed i gotta get up early tomorrow me (12:46:36 AM): goodnight Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 I think you did great! Maybe next time she's babysitting you can volunteer to go and keep her company? Link to comment
Twan Posted May 21, 2006 Author Share Posted May 21, 2006 so when she says shes gotta what should i say? Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 Instead of waiting until she's got to babysit (I think that'd be too late because she'll have already made arrangements with her friends) mention it the next time you see her. Just say, 'The next time you have to babysit your brothers I could come around and help you if you like?' Something like that. Good luck Link to comment
thursday Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 Is this supposed to be flirting? I don't know but if I were you I would be quite disappointed. It's not really a two-way conversation, but hey what do I know about this stuff Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 No it's not flirting, but it's a step closer to being together. You can flirt when she agrees you can babysit with her. Which is also the time to ask if she'd like to go for a pizza or to a movie, etc. Link to comment
Momene Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 Try to arrange to go out somewhere. If she says no, well at least you won't be spending the next 70 years thinking "what if". Link to comment
Twan Posted May 22, 2006 Author Share Posted May 22, 2006 She said that she doesn't believe her mother would like boys to be over when she's babysitting....oh well What else could I do? I still plan on calling her maybe Wednesday? Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 22, 2006 Share Posted May 22, 2006 Try asking her out for pizza or to a movie or something along those lines. Link to comment
Twan Posted May 22, 2006 Author Share Posted May 22, 2006 well I do that normally and she says 'i dont know' I dont know why she wont just say yes! lol Link to comment
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