Why her???

[puccie08]

My friends niece was born premature a few days ago and tonight she died. Now hes asking why her.. and I just really want to help him and his family during this difficult time. If anyone has any words of wisdom please inform me as quickly as possible

[shyanne]

i'm sorry. there is not much you can do to ease their pain. maybe in time they could read some books on the after life. they helped me when i lost my mom. didn't take away my pain but helped comfort me in some ways. it tooks a month or more of mourning before i started reading stuff like that. most books like that talk about losing babies too.

[puccie08]

yea my mother has a bunch of those books thank you so much for the idea i would have never thought about that. Im dearly sry for what happened to ur mother best of wishes

[shyanne]

thanks. death is never easy, more so when it's a child/baby or even parents. my condolences to you and your friends too

[janine1]

I had a friend in a similar situation, with their baby dying at birth and then after another attempt at a baby it happened again. It’s a very tragic situation, but I think there’s lots we can do to help. Letting your friend know your there for them, even if it’s just for someone to talk to. Many people don’t wanna burden friends and family with there pain, so letting them know they have you to talk to will be a relieve for them.