Confused at his motives...

[glitterandglitz]

thanks for the help

[Vanilla]

before you take it there....are you on birth control?

[Confused1981]

Yes make sure u are using appropiate contreception, but he was asking what u liked , what turned u on, its good because at least he is thinking of you as well as himself, take ur time and u will both learn what really gets u off!!

[ayhen16]

get off when he pushes you to do it....

[Starry_Eyed]

Me and my boyfriend are both 18 and have been together about a year. Things started getting more serious in the past 3 months. We never had sex yet. We were making out today and my boyfriend kept asking me in the middle repeatedly "what do you want me to do?"..he asked like 15 times the same question. I didn't know what to say to him b/c I really wasn't understanding him. I asked him what he meant and he said he didn't know. Do you think he was talking about having sex? I want to take it to that level but I don't know how to get it there.

 

Yes, he is probably talking about sex. How do you get it to that level? That's hard to answer. If you really want to take it to that level .. talk to him about it, but don't wait until you're all hot and heavy with the making out. I don't know how you would really bring it up, but I'd to it over the phone (less akward that way). Once you've talked about it and you're both on the same page ... I'm sure you'll "get it there."

[glitterandglitz]

thanks for the help

[Vanilla]

well as soon as you two establish to have sex, please please please get on bcp. I can't stress, BCP, BCP , BCP.

 

If you two really care for eachother, talking about it shouldnt be hard. Just remember, respect and honesty are key. good luck!