about a date

[Emotional]

this guy i met at a friend of mines house said

hes call me today and take me out...soo he gave

me his number even tho i didnt write it down

and i remembered it...my phone rings around 4pm

and his number shows up, but he only let it ring

once...

 

just wonderin if yall can help me....

[antigravity]

It all depends on what you want.

 

If you want to go out with him, call him!

 

If he wasn't interested he wouldn't have even bothered to call you at all.

 

If your not interested in him, don't call him back.

[smallworld]

I agree. Call him back. He probably chickened out at the last second.

[Emotional]

aww if he did...thats wayy cute...

ok so he called me back and i

talked to him...he wanted me to come

over to his friends and he offered to

come pick me up from my friends

to go back to his house and he'll drop me

off in the morning...sooo I didn't go and

i didnt end up seeing him.

 

I like him yall...but he didn't keep his word

he told me he was going to take me out on

a date and never did!

[smallworld]

Hurray he called! I know you wanted some one on one time with him, but maybe in his mind inviting you over to his friends was his idea of a safe first date?

[Emotional]

it kind of makes me feel like he doesn't want to show me off or this might just be me, but wouldn't you think thats kind of a lame date?

[Jadtt]

it kind of makes me feel like he doesn't want to show me off or this might just be me, but wouldn't you think thats kind of a lame date?

 

I don't think it's too lame. Maybe he just wanted to hang out with you around friends first. This happens a lot with men I meet, we hang out a few times in a group setting and then we go out on a "first date". It's good because you get to see the person interact socially with others, which is a good way to "size them up", so to speak.

[smallworld]

Lame? Hell no! If I was crushin' on a guy, I'd be thrilled just to spend time with him. It's a good sign I think that he wants you to meet and hang out with his friends. I agree with Jadtt. There are worse crimes than a group date. Give the cutie a shot!