do i love her or not

[blackwidow]

hi,

I know this girl for about 4 years now. We were the best of friends ever since...but unknowingly i fell in love with her. she acceps me as a friend and will never be able to see me as a lover.. what should i do.?

[jessified78]

u love her you just got make her fall in love with you ... do sweet things for her her mind will change

[Colls]

u can always love her even if its just as a friend. As for being lovers, if u kno that wont happen, then why pursue it? Pursue being the one that she can tell ne thing and trust with all her heart, and the love may come to her. Remember that u cant make someone fall in love with you, they have to see u in their eyes the love. So without realizing it, she may come to be urs in her own heart, and the two of you will be happy together in the end. But FRIENDSHIP is always nice, better than realationships sometimes. Ya kno? lata - good luck

[kdreger]

You're in a painful position because if you express yourself you may ruin the friendship. Instead you may just have to suffer in silence - an opportunity may present itself in the future - just don't push. Does she know?