makin the first move

[kaosorder]

ive been goin out wit my gf for bout 2months now and im still havin issuses makin the first move towrads sex, wat some helpful tips and ways i can engage in the fun wit out sayin a word, cuz when i ask for it verbaly it dont feel right.

[QTpie87]

I have the same problem about making the first move and my bf wants me too, but it's like you never know if it's gonna be a good time to make a move or not.

sorry I can't help ya.

[TooNiceAGuy]

I find that the "usual" method seems to work well. Basically, you're both sitting down in the couch, you lean over and kiss her, and keep kissing her. Use your hands, and don't go directly for breats/etc, caress her hair while you kiss her, let your hands go down her back.. after a while when things heat up, ask her if she wants to move to the bed. You're not saying "lets have sex" but you mean it. If she/he is ready, and feel comfortable, you'll move to the bed, and clothes should soon come off =) (btw, this works without a couch too, against a wall, standing up, or wherever). Be bold, make the move.

 

Good luck!

[Tigris]

I agree.

 

Once the passionately kisses kick in there'll be no problems at all.

 

Good luck and don't forget the condoms.