How to you

[optimistic person]

how do you get a man a to go out with you only but he is going out with 3 other girls

[S4il]

he seems like a []D [] []V[] []D

 

 

WEll do what the other girls did. just be better at it, so he choices you as a "SET" person and not the other 3. Simple Question... Simple Answer..

[optimistic person]

I am at school studing now and going to finish in 1 week but all this time he is spending time with them.

[SwingFox]

Hello Optimistic Person,

 

Thank you for coming back to eNotalone.com for seeking advice. I understand that you like this young man and that you'd like him to go out with you solely, rather than him going out with other girls, too.

 

The key here seems to be communication. You'll have to communicate your values towards and onto him. How? First I suggest that you tell him you really like him or may be even tell him that you have certain feelings for him. He might not be totally aware of that. Having said that, you could ask him after that what he feels for you and wether those feelings are mutual. If he does, you might want to explain your values and standards towards him, one being that he is only dating you.

 

He might or might not agree with you and do or do not as you ask him. It's up to you to decide what to do with that. Either you accept that as part of his personality and his standards and values or you walk away from him and try to find a guy that fits your standards better.

 

I hope that this helped you on your way ... good luck

 

~ SwingFox ~