Dolce_Vita Posted October 16, 2005 Share Posted October 16, 2005 In general I know how to behave around women and most of the times that I spent with them is fun and everything always seem to turn out of the best. I met a woman online , she lives in my state but about 2-3 hours drive from my city. This girl really set my soul on fire and we spent hours on the phone and chattin sometimes from midnite to 4-5 am ... brief it was a very pleasant talking to her and we decided to meet each other ..so i had to travel about a few hundred miles..i missed my original departure time and arrived a few hours later than expected ... we made plan to go to a restaurent and when i made it there i didn't see her , waited for about 1/2 hour , tried callin her .. no answer .. finally later in the evening i get a hold of her and she's angry stating she was there in the restaurant and i stood her up ... i was shocked in disbelief ..either she is an awfull liar or we really missed each other ... so with sarcastic and good humor jokes i stated that i came to the city to see her, and it would a shame not seein her ..she said she would give me a call later because she is a friend house and thinking about goin to play pool and we'll meet there.... the night passed no call from her ... no answering to my calls it's a cellphone and i know she has it on her ..i left 3 msg with numbers and everything to reach me ... nuttin ..nada ... so i went back home the following day ... it feels very awful to be stood up nowhere hundred miles of ur home because u had faith in someone and was willin to cross the distance .... it feels really bad becuz i never expected she could do smth like that specially that she seemed so sweet... now i'm at loss ..not knowing to do, confused ..specially that this is the 1st i ever given so much credit i barely knew ... Link to comment
jna35 Posted October 16, 2005 Share Posted October 16, 2005 That sucks and I am sorry you had such a bad experience. If it was at all possible, it would have been a good idea to let her know that you were running several hours behind. I'd probably be fairly upset if I had been waiting for someone that long and they were a no show. Also, you left her several messages, so the ball is in her court. I wouldn't continue to call her or you will appear desperate and may scare her off. Give the situation some time to cool and go from there. I hope it all works out for you!! Link to comment
Dolce_Vita Posted October 17, 2005 Author Share Posted October 17, 2005 thx a lot jna35 ..I guess that`s probably the best thing to do ..but how is it possible to so badly be wanting to see someone for weeks and at the last moment u get so close to it ... everything get blown out of proportion for the worst becuz of a missed train Link to comment
beanpaper Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 I don't get it... were you 3 hours late to the restaurant or not? Link to comment
Dolce_Vita Posted October 17, 2005 Author Share Posted October 17, 2005 I was 3 hours late making it to the city but when i called her and set up the restaurent i was on time ... she supposelly was inside i was at the entrance and after an 3/4 h of seein no one i left ... i tried calling her no answer ... but the point that traumatizes me is how can u so baddly pissed off and not return calls specially when u first meet someone ...? Link to comment
harmonized Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 have you talked to this woman since then? maybe an emergency had come up ... Link to comment
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