help please

[bballplaya4814]

hi i am 14 and have never masturbated before. will someone give me techniques, positions tips, how to do it and all that good stuff. also can you have an orgasm while masturbating if so, how? please help me im concerned

[DiscipleOfChange]

Are you a guy or a girl?

[bballplaya4814]

guy

[Amannamederic]

i thought id have the answer but having searched for the words...

 

i cant find em rofl,

 

i guess you just grab and pretend your stabbing a piece of paper with a pencil.

[nuts]

dude your only 14 so i wouldnt worry about it too much. the good news tho is that a guy can orgasm every time he comes. its just a given

 

you have to get to know your own body and what does it for you before you can expect to get anything out of it. start by getting material: an image in your own head, magazine, video, whatever.

 

id reccomend starting in a sitting position comfortably. grab yourself with your whole hand (whichever you write with) and start rubbing, pushing on yourself over your clothes. keep it goin so you get hard. pick up the pace for a while and then move your hand inside and wrap your hand around it. gently squeeze and keep your hand moving in an up/down motion.

 

the next part may take a while, or it may happen soon, depending on you. take off/pull down your bottom layers of clothing. keep the motion goin and quicken the pace. keep a firm grip and work it a little harder, a little faster. do it as hard or gentle as your comfortable with, whatever feels best for you. when youre ready (and youll know when youre ready) dont stop the action and relieve yourself. some keep goin as they come, some just let it happen. experiment with it.

 

good luck. let us know how it went!

[Amannamederic]

hey i started in 5th grade after watching "Theres Something about Mary"

 

i was pretty excited if i remember correctly rofl

 

there is no right or wrong age, i mean what is in, like 7th grade?

[TheVindicator]

Are you circumsized? Do you have a foreskin?

 

If not, use lubricant. For solo play, that is without a female, or using condoms, oil based lubricant is okay. Oil in women is not safe, nor is oil on condoms. Lube up, make an 'okay' sign with your pointer finger and thumb touching at the tips. Place penis inside, move hand up and down. Vary as you wish

 

By the way, take your time

 

Focus on the journey, not the destination

 

Yes, you can orgasm from masturbating

 

Have a towel or 'special sock' ready for if you ejaculate