why do I even bother...???

[Tracy21]

So, I met a guy about 2 months ago...we met at a party unfortunately he lives like 2-3 hours away from me. I haven't seen him but we have kept in contact. We are supposed to be meeting up pretty soon one of these coming weekends. THe problem is...why am I even bothering...I mean..I know he likes me and I like him...but I am playing it cool...u know..not wanting to appear desperate and what not... but who knows what he really wants...urrggghh life is so complicated. help!! I mean we talk atleast once a week...what should I do???

[djedix]

Hang out with him, see what he wants... if its a relationship, just a hook up.. ASK him he'll tell you. don't let him lead you on.. If you need more attention then once a week (which i think we all need). If he's leading you on, then get rid of him. Find someone closer to home..

[MaxPayne19]

Give it a chance...hang out with him see what hes feeling and if hes into you. If not then no big deal there is always someone else that will be living in a closer distance to you.

[lillady898]

Why bother? Because you never know when you're going to miss out on a chance of a lifetime.

[darkblue]

What if he's something?

 

It may appear that your negative side turns out right - but the instead of 'why bother?' the question should be 'why not?' or 'what have I got to lose?'.

 

Take a chance - if you don't like him; there's plenty more were that came from.