Should I tell her when the time comes?

[Poltergeist]

I just started dating this wonderful girl, she is everything I want in a woman, and I think she is a virgin, we haven't talked about it yet. Anyways, I am a virgin too but I have fooled around with my last gf (we never went all the way, the furthest I ever gone was rubbing her vagina. The furthest shes ever gone was oral sex. I just couldn't bring myself to give her oral sex) It was a big mistake and I regret ever doing anything with her because she was The Worst Girlfriend I ever had!. I'm now worried that if this new girl and I get serious and about 2 1/2 to 3 years down the road I'll have to tell her about this. So far we are off to a good start we enjoy each other company and we like to spend a lot of time together. I have been tested for STD's and VD's and both has turned up negative. If this new girl and I become serious and the conversation of past lovers come up, should I tell her? I'm just worried that I might lose her, and if I do I probably deserve it. She is a wonderful girl and I know if things do become serious I'll only care about her and no one else, because shes treated me so well and she is just so wonderful.

[segagirl]

wow. im speechless. no maybe not. Yes you should tell her, and no i would not be worried. You and her will still experience sex for the first time with eachother (if you make it that far). No worries, you are a prince for even asking.

[Poltergeist]

Well I didn't want to go all the way with anyone except my wife. It was just a terrible miskate and if I could do it all over again I would've just turned it down. I just hope shes understanding. Man this is just keeping me up

[segagirl]

what is past is past, the only thing you can do now is save the rest for your one and only. If you are keeping yourself up thinking , then be thinking about all the wonderful things you have left to give

[Poltergeist]

The only thing I can give now is my loyality to her, my faithfulness, to support her the way she deserves to be supported, and of course to go all the way with her. I don't even keep in contact with my ex anymore, this whole miskate took over a year ago. Man I can hear it now "Your sleeping on the couch tonight!"

[freakin_weak]

You know what poltergeist, it's much better to be more honest than trying to shut things down.. You should tell her personally about your concerns and etc... I think she'll appreciate you more because your proving it to her that your serious with her.....