DevonUK Posted August 1, 2017 Share Posted August 1, 2017 Hi I posted on here last week about my ex playing mind games. He has now reappeared by coming to talk to me at a recent football game. I won't go on about the little details but I am confused as to his motives. At the time I didn't know what to think and was speechless, but after about 5 mins were talking about what's been happening in his life. We couldn't however talk about our break up as my daughter was sat next to us. I told him not to be a stranger, I'm not invisible, I'm glad he's finally taken the courage to come and talk to me...I have him stuff to think about. I also said I have so many questions for him and his reply was " well you cant always have the answers to some of them" and that we can't talk with my daughter around. He asked if we were going to the next game this Saturday, which we are. After another 10 mins he left. At first I thought well okay, he's taken a big step to come and talk to me. After 3 months of ignoring my efforts to get in touch. I told myself to let it be and see what this week and Saturday brings. However yesterday I felt like I was going out of my mind!! I'm an impatient person, especially when things are bothering me and starting to affect me, and I was very close to getting in touch with him to see what all that was about. Does he want me back in his life, was he just being polite, you know the normal questions!! I don't know what to do for the best, do I get in touch and push him for an answer an risk pushing him away and ruining any more reconciliation? Or do I leave it and see what Saturday brings. I'm feeling a little lost and confused Link to comment
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