SEX

[xcherryx]

this sounds really really stupid but im an amiture and i was wondering how you all have sex i mean like what is the girl sapossed to do? PLEASE HELP

 

xcherryx

[kskm]

I think that you are a little young. You first start by taking birth control regularly and then when the guy gets aroused you put a condom on him, and then it kinda comes naturally from there. But the first two steps are more important that the rest.

[skyteph]

Don't you have Sex-Ed at your school..?

[c00kie]

well itl b best if you have a solid bf first. then when he gets randy and your ready and prepared just let him do all the work.

[RoxyBabe17]

I could sit here and tell you that your too young but only you know what you want in life, im guessing this we'll be your first time just a word of advice let it be with someone you love, because it wont be as good and you may later on regret it...

[CarrieB123]

No offense to all you posters, but I think she asked "how to have sex" not "am I old enough" or "what should I do about protection"

 

That being said, the actual definition of intercourse is: physical sexual contact between individuals that involves the genitalia of at least one person.

 

Penetration of the penis into the vagina.

 

As for what you want to do during sex, the possibilities are endless, it can involve kissing, touching, caressing, oral sex the list goes on and on. Most people do what they like and what their partner enjoys, so "going with the flow" is a good way to approach it.

[Strictly4MyGrind]

Exactly right she didnt ask if shes old enough or if you aprove she dint even say she was going to do it. She just asked how you do it.

 

be safe.

[xcherryx]

yup thats what i asked.... and i never did say that i was going to i might but thats my buss, i dont think that im going too right now because i dont think that he is the "right one" but thank you all.... please keep the advice cummin

[CarrieB123]

A bit of advice, from someone who "learned the hard way"

 

Be picky with who you choose to give your virginity to. Your first time can be awesome or terrible, and it's something you will most likely remember forever.

 

Just a thought, this may not apply to you but when I go clothes shopping I try things on, look in the mirror, ask for a friends opinion, and even sometimes go home and come back to buy the "outfit" later that day, or I get home and realize "I didn't even really like that outfit its a good thing I didn't spend $85 on it" Well take that idea with you when you are thinking about "losing your virginity"...

 

"Try him on", ask yourself is this guy worthy of me?

 

"Look in the Mirror" ask yourself do I feel good about this choice I am making?

 

"Ask friends for an opinion" ask your friends and family, do you like (guys name) do you think he is good for me?

 

"Go home and maybe come back later that day" Give yourself time to think about whether it feels right.

 

"Realize, a potential "bad purchase"" Be happy in your choices if you realize that you don't want to share yourself with a person that doesn't feel right.

 

Good LUCK!!

[SPark]

Carrie that is fantastic advice that should be read by everyone who will ever have sex someday!

[CarrieB123]

That's for the complement goddesss38.

 

I should do a men's version!!! Something like buying a car, or playing a ball game!!!!

[SPark]

Great idea...be waiting to hear what you come up with...feel free to send me a PM if you want help with the brainstorming!