What's the deal???

[bananajuice]

Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend she screams so loud that shocked me. I had to, sometimes, cover her face with the pillow. And when we had sex, she just jerks and grinds, ... what's the deal here?

[snow]

You are really lucky actually, most women don't make a sound while having sex. I was under the impression that guy's liked it when a girl responded, showed how excited they were. The thing is, straight forward here, women want clitoral stimulation, so they grind and move around like that to get it. That is really normal. I personally think that it's a guys job to move with her, not just jammnig the damn thing in over and over. She sounds to me like a very normal women, and maybe talking to her about how she likes to move is a good idea.

[bananajuice]

Thanks, snow. If she moans and groans, yes, I would love it; but not screaming so loud. That was really embarrassing to say the least. And when she makes love, her legs jerk. What's with this jerking business? Can any woman explain?

[sisterlynch]

She may be out of shape, that may explain the jerkiness of her legs.

 

If you don't like her howls, try to adjust your rhythm so that you are a little more gentle, if she seems to be "faking" it call her on it, say "what gives?" She may think that it is cool to act like that. Tell her you think you are hurting her and see what she says to that...

 

Try different positions to see if she is more comfortable.

[bananajuice]

Thank you two very much. A couple of really smart women, I say. Thanks again.

[sisterlynch]

Not a problem!

[laroxes]

Would you prefer she lay there still & quiet like a statue while you take your pleasure with her? It's great that she can get feelings so extreme. You might try going slower & being a bit less sexy.