coolioso2020 Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 Ok,there is this girl right and yuh no she always giveing me hugs and stuff so the other day i asked her out and she said no becasue i was to good of a friend and i want to know if any of you guys can give me some pointers so she will go out with me Link to comment
SwingFox Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 Hi coolioso, First of all welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I am pleased to hear that you are doing good with this young woman. I understand that you'd like to ask her out for a date and that your question is: how? My suggestion is that you just ask. Obviously she already likes you, because she is hugging you and stuff. That is a signal. Besides that, you don't have much to loose. The worst thing that could happen, I think, is that she is going to say 'no'. No damage done after that, you know I hope that this helped you and I wish you good luck in any decision that you make that works for you. ~ SwingFox ~ Link to comment
coolioso2020 Posted June 7, 2003 Author Share Posted June 7, 2003 thnx for the welcome and the other day i aasked her out and she said no casue she knew me for to long and i was to close of a friend and i was confused Link to comment
SwingFox Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 Hi coolioso, There's an unwritten rule that says: "Never date your friends." The reason behind this, is because if the dating game goes wrong, you also might loose your friendship and that's a BIG risk. Could it be possible that your friend believes in this rule and thereforeeeeee that she is afraid to loose you as a friend? ~ SwingFox ~ Link to comment
coolioso2020 Posted June 7, 2003 Author Share Posted June 7, 2003 ok well my friend is dating a friend and they hasve been together for almost 2 years but they made a promise before there realtionship that if any thing happened they would still act like they did before the relation ship ever happened Link to comment
coolioso2020 Posted June 7, 2003 Author Share Posted June 7, 2003 adn i asked my friend on a date and she said no becasue we were to good of friends and i dont understand now Link to comment
SwingFox Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 Hi again Coolioso, This is the theory. However, due to feelings and emotions while breaking up, people usually get so hurt that friendship seems to be impossible after a relationship. I have tried myself and it just doesn't work for me, either. I have to tell you, though: exceptions confirms the rule, of course. There's always people that are an exception to the rule ~ SwingFox ~ Link to comment
coolioso2020 Posted June 7, 2003 Author Share Posted June 7, 2003 cause i like this girl so much and like i never really had enough guts to ask anyone and i did and she said no and her friends say she likes me and so did her little brother but now i dont know if they were lieing or just she just isnt addminting it Link to comment
coolioso2020 Posted June 7, 2003 Author Share Posted June 7, 2003 do you have any advise or pointers that may make it so she will go out on date with me Link to comment
SwingFox Posted June 7, 2003 Share Posted June 7, 2003 Yep, Talk to her a little more often. Say hi to her and and do some small talk. Make her a few compliments to see how she reacts. If the signs are positive, I would suggest you ask her out. I hope that this will work for you ~ SwingFox ~ Link to comment
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