Need to see her more

[eviljedi]

Hey, I've talked to this girl a few times; very brief conversations because of the situations. I think she likes me and I really like her but the problem is I'm lucky if I see her once a week and even then we don't really get a chance to talk. I just want to find a way to get to know her better but cause of the circumstances its really difficult, I don't know her well enough to ask her out so what am I supposed to do? Anyone else been in a situation like this?

 

Thanks

eviljedi

[BrandonBo]

ask her for her phone number talk to her from there then find time to meet up like a date eventually but first off u gotta communicate with her the phone is a good way

[shuntaro603]

Ask for her IM or phone number. Talk to her and get to know her better.

[eviljedi]

I don't really know her all that well to ask for her number, im surprised she even knows my name. Also, when I see her shes around other people and It would be kinda awkward asking for her number (one of them might be her bf etc).

[Sexychiick16]

aww so take a chance...Ask her if she has a man ?>...I know its easier said than done but im sure once u get that off of ur chest u will feel happy either way b/c u actually took the time to ask and Atleast Ude Know for sure...

[bull]

i wouldnt worry so much since u dont know her that well. just go up to her and say, "hey i think ur a great person and i would like the chance to get to know you better." remember, u dont even know her that well yet so its not really a big deal if she doesnt like you right now.

[eviljedi]

yea, i don't really mind if she dosn't like me, but i dont wanna scare her off.

[BrandonBo]

you dont need to know a person that well to get their number thats why u get it to get to know them better just do it it will be fine

[DropToZero]

Haha...wow....sounding so familiar. I would just say take the chance like everyone else says. It's no big deal...just one day when you're about to split up from talking, turn back and say "Do you have email or a cell phone, cuz I'd like to get to know you better..." , whatever happens, happens....but when you do it....LEAVE after you ask...do not stay and talk more, so make sure to do it right before you about to split up and go your own ways.

 

You want my honest opinion though....you can check out my post in "Asking Out For a Date"...."Asking out as friends" b/c I just posted in it. Your situation sounds so much like mine....just read my story and you might see my real point of view on this.

[sole]

Give her your number. If she's really interested she'll call you and possibly give you her number. Just let her know that you're giving her your number because you want to know her better.