lostgirl123 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 when a guy that you've been seeing for a few weeks holds your hand for the first time and ask if we're dating? Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 it means he wants to know if your committed to dating him ..just him .. doesnt it ? dont over analyse everything Link to comment
EssexMan Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 It means he wants you to say "yes, we are dating". Link to comment
mcgoldrick Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 He wants to know if you actually have feelings for him, and if you were going out with him to get to know him better, which could mean that he wants to take your relationship a step ahead. He wants to know if you were 'just hanging out' or have any intentions of a future relationship with him Link to comment
Steve55 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 It's what everyone else has posted.... How did you respond? Link to comment
LoveSoDeep Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I think he wanted to know if you had a romantic realtionship or if you're just friends...to me dating doesn't imply commitment but it does say it's on the romantic side of the spectum and not just a friendship. If he's just now holding your hand that says to me he was a little unsure that physical advances would be welcome. Link to comment
lostgirl123 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Share Posted February 6, 2013 i said we're just seeing each other Link to comment
Steve55 Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 i said we're just seeing each other If I were him, that answer really wouldn't tell me anything about how you feel about me. Maybe in a way it does....... Link to comment
lostgirl123 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Share Posted February 6, 2013 wouldn't me responding by allowing him to hold my hand, kiss me etc. be enough for him to know that i'm into him? if he was really that into me wouldn't he officially ask me to be his girlfriend? Link to comment
EssexMan Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 wouldn't me responding by allowing him to hold my hand, kiss me etc. be enough for him to know that i'm into him? if he was really that into me wouldn't he officially ask me to be his girlfriend? Not everybody uses the same words. "Dating" to him may mean more, as a word, than it does to you. Are you seeing him exclusively (i.e. not seeing anyone else)? Do you want to? Link to comment
lostgirl123 Posted February 6, 2013 Author Share Posted February 6, 2013 no we both aren't seeing anyone else. i don't want to see anyone else but i am still keeping my options open. Link to comment
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