bobster Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Basically I would like some views from you good people on this one.... I have been best mates with this guy from high school, when we left we stayed as is and done football, shopping in the city, drinking and went to parties together. I got my GF when I was 18 but that didn't change anything, as they already knew each other. He never had any GF's in school, not because he's ugly or anything, he just didn't. Anyway we always hung out in groups more so when my other mates got GF's and the group grew. But that all stopped for my "mate" when he met a group of young girls on his way home from work three years ago. He is going out with one of them now, and he keeps her secret. No-one is allowed to meet her and her friends. He has even bought a house in the country so to keep her locked away. He doesn't come out to socialise at all now, and he's always getting pestered on his mobile when he does eventually come out. He occasionally phones me with great plans of getting a social meeting organised but its all a big fantasy and never happens or he doesn't show up. What I'm annoyed about is, for years I've confided in him, he was my best mate, and now he's a secret person with this young girl (legal just!) He won't even come out with me and my GF as a four for a meal! Is he trying to re-live his youth or what? He's going to be a very lonely person, when she leaves him, and the question is will I be around for him?? He would be my first choice of my Best Man, but now I'm not so sure as I hardly know him now! Quote Link to comment
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