lifeisaparadox Posted March 28, 2012 Share Posted March 28, 2012 however hes only visiting for 5 days and plans to spend 3 days in another location to visit his cousins. the thing is, his cousins just visited him about 2ish months ago and I really really really miss him and was looking forward to having 5 days of alone private time, since he'll be staying at my place. I already had surprise plans of what to do on all of these 5 days. I've been looking forward for it, even cleaned the house for him to come but was saddened by the fact that he planned to go see his cousins for almost half of the little time he has here. He did ask me if it was alright to go and I said yeah because it originally was just a day trip but that was because I didn't know how long it took to get there. However, since he discovered it takes about 9 hours to get there, he decided to change the trip to 3 days to compensate for travel time. Would it be selfish of me to ask him to not go? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 28, 2012 Share Posted March 28, 2012 Is visiting his cousins with him out of the question? Link to comment
lifeisaparadox Posted March 28, 2012 Author Share Posted March 28, 2012 Yes, I have work but I changed my sched this week so that I work earlier and get out earlier so that he'll be sleeping most of the time I am gone anyway. I planned it that way, at least, and he knows! Link to comment
alwaysmoving Posted March 28, 2012 Share Posted March 28, 2012 I don't think you would be selfish to ask him to stay at all. Girlfriend > cousins who you have just seen. Link to comment
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