L24 Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 I got dumped nearly 3 months ago now. It was unexpected and bad time. I never wanted it to be over, so i persisted, driving her away further. She is now doing a course somewhere else and is like a new life for her, crossing me off entirely and choosing to forget me. I tried to be a friend but was too painful. I would give anything to have her back but i have come to accept there is nothing i can say or do anymore. its up to her and it doesnt seem that she wants to try again. Though i miss her so very much. I am in a lot of pain, full of regrets, upset etc... She was my first love which made matters worse. Ive gone down hill into a depression which led me to feeling like life isnt worth living at times. I alot of peoples advice is to let go move on. only way forward. But im finding that very hard. Im not coping well. Im struggling to get up in the morning. I wish i could talk to her about things, i feel like its unfinished business. But i dont think she would go for that. Im confused and torn up inside when i try to think of new relationships. Not sure where to begin on this... people say time is a great healer, is that true? How can I cope with memories etc... try to move on and live again? Any advice / stories welcome thanks x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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