What to do when she calls?

[slw1]

Ok I asked the ex gf yesterday if she wanted to meet up and talk over an ice cream.She told me she couldnt this week..but I'll call you when I'm up to it.---now she is in full control.

 

Now assuming that she does call me one day ,what should I do?I dont want to be desperate and jump at the first oppurtunity,I mean I have to gain back a little bit of control.Any suggestions on how to this without looking like i am playing games.

 

thanks

[rnorth]

Need to know more about your background to answer this correctly.

 

One thing you "could" do is just not answer and wait until next week to return her call. That is of course, assuming she calls you.

 

But by no means should you call her.

[dpressedone89]

yeah i agree dont call her and wait to answer the phone or not at all then call back like 2-3 days later

-stitches aka The Antihero

[rnorth]

It sucks that we have to resort to playing these "games" instead of just being "real". But it never ends and its important to show the other party that we are strong - even if we really aren't at that moment.

[Day_Walker]

Why do you care that she thinks you are playing games? If she calls tell her that you dont need to discuss anything and that you have worked it out all by yourself. Its simple and effective because she needs to know that you arent waiting one her.

[slw1]

She still hasnt called after a week.I want to call her just for a friendly conversation but not sure if i should.?