Outlaw2747 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Hey, it's all good. IM me anytime and if you want my messengers and e-mail we can chat. I only help those who deserve it and you are one of the good girls in the world so I feel as if I should help you. But one problem, this forum isn't what it used to be. Bascially for some reason we cannot get back on topic and it is just us same guys here (which ain't bad but you know what I mean). I did create a new post which is receiveing alot of attention much like the old 20, single, virgin post. It is called WHAT WOMEN WANT and it actually has some intelligent answers and theories there so check it out. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 22, 2004 Author Share Posted July 22, 2004 Right'o then! To the topic we go! *does happy dance to the "What Women Want" topic* Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 22, 2004 Author Share Posted July 22, 2004 Umm... where exactly is this topic located? Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 It is found in the attraction and flirting forum. You can't miss it, it is in huge caps and created by me. Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Sense u guys r really great people and i know u can answer one lil thing for me although outlaw has answered it twice.K with girls it has improved well with these pills sense i actually talked with the new waitress exchanged names,exchanged smiles,and made lots of eye contact sometimes.Good for me cause now im actually looking at them instead of looking at the floor feeling all down from depression ya like coming from u padreamer,john,or any regular to these thread u got any ideas on how i can get to know her better?Some great ideas to start more conversation and maybe just to get to know her as a friend at least or if things go good maybe ask her out or something cause she really seems like a very nice girl shes also pretty in my eyes too but that doesnt matter so much.So what do u guys think?And thanx for being there guys Link to comment
Caldus Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Get her phone number next time you go there. Just talk to her for a little bit and then tell her that you want to get to know her more. Then ask for the phone number. I did that a month ago with this one girl and it worked. So good luck. Let us know the results. Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Iono mang ive only worked with her for the last like 3 days the only reason im wanting to try to know her as fast as i could is because once my friend gets to her she will proly like him because he has that high charisma.PLus isnt that a lil too fast to already ask for her phone number she works tonight so ill try to get some conversation going and make more eye contact ill try to say how things r going to see how much these pills have made me improve with girls because i have a more positive outlook on things now. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 22, 2004 Author Share Posted July 22, 2004 Woah! BRAKES! Hold on there hun! You definitely don't want to make any moves too fast. While some girls like a fast mover, MANY girls see it as an attempt to get in their pants. I would highly suggest that you give her some time to acclamate to working with you, become a good friend to her and you'll REALLY get to know her! Just be sociable and nice, and let her know that you're a nice guy! That way, you won't be moving too fast, but you'll have the opportunity to see what she is really like after she gets settled in. Get my drift? I mean, for all you know, she could end up being a really mean person once she's comfortable in a setting. Link to comment
Caldus Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Nope. I met that girl I mentioned earlier and talked with her 15 minutes and then got her phone number. Just don't look too desperate and just let her know that you want to get to know her some more. So it's not too early. Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Nah thats what i was thinking along ur lines padreamer.I just wanted to know some ways to start conversation not to get to know her extremely fast but to just talk with her.So that like whenever i come in i can say "hi" and maybe jk around with her a lil i was definitely not looking towards that but i was prolly confused on how to explain these things.Maybe its because with my friend they like him right away it sux but o well Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 Ya what kind of conversation should i bring up to let her know id want to be friends and we could really get to know each other? Link to comment
Bitterness Inc. Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Unless you consider telling her bluntly "I want to be friends with you" an option, which might not be a good idea considering your age (usually only works in kindergarten the only way to let her know you want to be her friend is actually to pay attention to her and be interested in her person. I'm pretty bad at talking to people usually due to my shyness and lack of experience but I guess you could ask her things like: - Simply asking her how she's doing (shows her you've got at least minimal interest in her). - If there's music playing in the background, lash out a comment about it then work towards asking her what kind of music she likes (don't take "everything" as an answer, worse answer you could get). - Ask her why is she doing this job. Is she in need of money for a special project ? Which one ? Does she enjoy this job ? - What she's doing after work (try to spot an eventual hobby so you can keep the conversation flowing). - Ask if she's into sports and if so, why (staying fit, competitive side). - If she seems bored/tired/annoyed because of her job, ask her if she plans on taking some vacations sometime. Depending on her answer, ask her where she's traveled before and/or why she plans on going there. Hope this gives you a few ideas. Most "creative" smalltalk topics I could come up with at this time of the night ( 4am ). Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 I agree with Bitterness! Just be yourself, help her get used to the new work environment, be friendly and eventually she'll get cofortable around you! Then just naturally work your way from there. The worst thing you can do is try to force conversation. If something isn't already on your mind, don't fish for something to say. It will make you both feel awkward. Even just smiling at her and asking her how things are going and how she's adjusting is a great conversation starter. Maybe ask her where she worked before or why she decided to take this job. Just some basic "getting to know you" stuff! It takes time, but the conversation will become easier. And EVERYONE likes to know that someone is interested in letting them talk about themselves! LOL! I mean, who doesn't jump at the opportunity to spill their life story? Good luck! Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Ya thanx for the great tips and advice u guys i luv how u guys are always there to help me ad i hope i can help u guys sometime.I would of tried some of that today at work because i thought she worked thrusday but she didnt hopefully shes working tomorrow Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 Okay guys, you've seen my pic... now let's see yours! Link to comment
Outlaw2747 Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Hey sorry for not replying SHinobi but I'm not all that good at giving advice but rather asking questions and researching a topic. Plus we already chatted on MSN about it so it's cool right? Hope everything works out for ya, you are better off than me right now. This is picture about a year ago. Enjoy or puke I don't care really. Link to comment
Caldus Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Ya thanx for the great tips and advice u guys i luv how u guys are always there to help me ad i hope i can help u guys sometime.I would of tried some of that today at work because i thought she worked thrusday but she didnt hopefully shes working tomorrow That's what we're here for. And good luck with the girl. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 OUTLAW! What is the matter with you?! You think you're UGLY?!?!?!?! I think you need to be committed hun! My God! *sigh* men.... Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Hi, I have no clue what this topic is about but I saw the subject line, 20, single and virgin and I wanted to say that I am one too Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 I only have one pic of me in it and its to big to put it on maybe if i cut it down or something but iono yah and np outlaw mang i was just asking how u have been man just to see what u have been up too. Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted July 23, 2004 Author Share Posted July 23, 2004 Shinobie, just resize the pic. And welcome to the group, Teenresearch. Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Thanks! This seems like an awesome place! Do you guys belong to another similar forum? Link to comment
Shinobie Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 Its a picture of me and like 5 other people cause the only way i got it is that it was from something i went to and i copied it but maybe i could cut my part out of it. Link to comment
johnagent1911 Posted July 23, 2004 Share Posted July 23, 2004 We're showing pics of each other now..? Heh, uh perhaps I'll pass? Too much work. Plus I have an image to uphold =) I'm not a 'nice' guy. . Link to comment
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