What is a lap dance? How do u feel?

[LovingDiva]

yeah- What exactally is a lap dance?

 

I mean, I know the basics.... the girl dancing blah blah blah.

 

What I really want to know is when is it over? Someone told me it just depends on how much $$ the guy is willing to pay (AKA $20 per song) and other people have said its over when the guy ejaculates.

 

I'm just curious as to what everyone else thinks.

 

Oh and girls-- how do u or how would u feel if ur boyfriend went to a strip club and had a lap dance???

[JonnyG]

A lapdance lasts in general the length of 1 song. If the guy wants another he can pay again. The guy is not suppose to ejaculate during the dance.

[theghost]

the only person I would want a lap dance with is my gf.

[Goddess4ever]

IMO, if my boyfriend got a lapdance, then I would leave him, as I consider this cheating (engaging in sexual contact)...even though his clothes are on.

[ComputerGuy]

IMO, if my boyfriend got a lapdance, then I would leave him, as I consider this cheating (engaging in sexual contact)...even though his clothes are on.

 

This would vary a bit for me, If I had a g/f who was getting a lap dance, if she openly went with it, I would probably leave her, but if she was very uncomfortable with it and trying to get out of it, like if she out with friends and they'd payed a guy to lap dance her, then I would understand and wouldn't let it bother me.