Reality Check 1: Looks Do Matter

[DreamerGirl27]

Same as a girl who has said I'm not ugly, but she's not romantically or sexually attracted to me. Maybe there was another guy who did it for her?

 

Same for you, maybe there's another girl who just 'does' it for him? Doesn't mean that you're any less attractive, just that the other girl has something (personality, common interests, etc) that you don't.

 

Bottom line is, stop worrying about this guy, and go after someone who WANTS you. Don't ruin this guy's life, he wants nothing to do with you. Date someone who DOES.

 

If I were ruining his life, he wouldn't be pursuing talking to me. Who said he wanted nothing to do with me? He wants to be friends and has said it countless numbers of time. He's even told me I'd be a crappy friend if I stopped talking to him.