tough choice

[shyguy2000]

hey i have a big probelm here

dont let my name fool u guys out there am not a shy guy i'll go up 1st in presentations and do w/e but when it come with my feelings with some1 and wanna ask em out dats when i get shy

 

ok pretty much my stories is dat there r 2 girls i now

1 of em i knoe a few yrs and da other i now 4 a like 8 months both of em r best friends and i got mix feelings 4 both of em da 1 i knoe 4 a few yrs she says she likes some guy dats in a higher grd then she is but she doesnt really flirt with him dat much as she does with me she trustes me and everything but when i meet her other friend i got some feelings 4 her as well both i knoe really good da 1 i knoe 4 a few months is really kool nice and sweet she flirts with me and is not as girlish as da other 1 ex doenst really care if she has a cut on her finger the other 1 will sorta trip

i like both of em and my friend says i should go out with da 1 i knoe da longest cuz every1 nows her and they say we look good 2gether and my friends say she likes me too but i cant really decide who 2 ask out cuz i dont wanna lose a good friend and hurt da other person both of em act da same towards me and both r hella good friends help plzz

[SwingFox]

Hi shyguy,

 

Thank you for coming to eNotalone.com with your questions. I understand that it is very hard for you to decide which young lady you like best.

 

I have a few ideas for you:

 

1) Why don't you stay friends with both of them. Are you really in a rush to get involved in a relationship with a young lady at all. You're still young, you know. There's always time to take things further.

 

2) If you are really thinking of getting more involved, I would suggest that you sit down first and find out what you expect out of a relationship and what your needs are. That will help you deciding in which young lady comes closest to your needs.

 

I hope that this will help you in deciding what you do and I wish you good luck

 

~ SwingFox ~

[aloneforever]

You're in highschool right?

 

Let me thread you a few pearls of wisdom. Now it might seem a little harsh but this is reality:

 

unless you've got a car, a job, a perfect face, and a perfect body you are not going to get a girlfriend especially now they all want someone better than what you are right now. Wait until college, or better yet wait until they're premenopausal then you can take your pick.

[shyguy2000]

these 2 girls dont care 4 a a guy with a car or nothing there hella good friends and they like me 4 who i am

[aloneforever]

Really? then ask them out, do it. it'll be for the better think about it, even if you're rejected it'll be for the best becuase at least you'll know how they really feel about you, oh yeah go for the one you've known longer.

[shyguy2000]

ya but da 1 i knoe longer is always likeing some other guy

and da 1 i knoe shortest doesnt really look at alot of guys