I dont know what to do please help me?

[Confusedgirl]

WELL THERE IS THIS GUY THAT I MET ABOUT 4 WEEKS AGO AND I STARTED CALLIN HIM WELL HE NEVER CALLED ME AND SO I WAS A LITTLE WORRIED SO I ASKED HIM DO U MIND ME CALLIN AND HE SAID NO U KNOW SO THEN MY FRIEND ASKED HIM AND HE WAS LIKE NAW I DONT MIND HER CALLIN AND THEN SHE WAS LIKE DO U KNOW WHY SHE IS CALLIN U DONT U BC SHE LIKES U AND HE WAS LIKE I KINDA FIGURED THAT WELL AFTER THAT WEEK PASSED THAT MONDAY MY FRIEND ASKED HIM SO DO U LIKE HER AND HE WAS LIKE SHE IS KEWL AND ALL BUT WHEN I TURN 21 SHE WONT BE 18 (well see his birthday is 10 days before mine and he just turned 20 and i just turned 17)WELL AFTER THAT NITE THE NEXT NITE I CALLED HIM AND HE STARTED CALLIN ME SO I WAS LIKE THATS KEWL WELL THEN THE NEXT WEEKEND I TOLD HIM THAT I WANTED TO GO TO THE DRAGSTRIP BUT I DONT GET OFF OF WORK UNTIL 9PM AND MY FRIENDS WERENT GOING TO WAIT ON ME SO I COULDNT GO AND HE WAS LIKE WELL MAKE THEM WAIT AND I WAS ILL TRY WELL I TOLD MY FRIENDS WHAT HE SAID SO THEY CALLED HIM AND SAID WHY DO WE HAVE TO WAIT WHY CANT U WELL SOMEHOW HE CAME AND GOT ME AND WE WENT WELL I THOUGHT OF IT AS HIM JUST GIVING ME A RIDE U KNOW WELL WE GOT THERE AND I GAVE HIM MY MONEY AND HE PAID MY WAY WITH HIS MONEY AND GAVE ME MY MONEY BACK OK WELL WE HUNG OUT THERE AND HE LET ME RIDE WITH HIM DOWN THE TRACK WELL THEN LIKE HE WAS FIXEN TO LEAVE AND HE WAS GOING TO LEAVE ME WITH MY FRIENDS WELL I ASKED HIM I SAID YOUR NOT GOING TO GIVE ME A RIDE AND HE WAS LIKE IF U WANT TO LEAVE NOW YEAH SO I LEFT WITH HIM AND SEE EARLIER HE TOLD MY FRIENDS THAT HE LIKES ME BUT HE WAS WORRIED ABOUT MY PARENTS WELL WHEN HE WAS TAKING ME HOME I ASKED HIM AND HE WAS LIKE YEAH THATS WHAT HE THINKS WELL THEN HE SAID WELL IM NOT BARING THAT ABOUT MY PARENTS CALLIN THE LAW ON HIM SO I WAS LIKE OH SO I THOUGHT HE DIDNT WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME WELL THEN AFTER HE DROPPED ME OFF I CALLED HIM AND I WAS LIKE SO DO U NOT WANT TO TLAK TO ME OR WHAT HE WAS YEAH I STILL WANT TO TALK TO U AND THEN HE WAS LIKE DONT JUMPED TO CONCLUSIONS AND I WAS LIKE OK U KNOW WELL THE NEXT WEEK IT SEEMED AS IF HE WAS GIVING ME THE COLD SHOULDER BUT THEN HE WOULD CALL ME AND TALK TO ME U KNOW WELL NOW IT DOESNT SEEM THAT WAY NOW. WELL THIS WEEKEND MY FRIEND AND HIM WERE TALKING ABOUT IT AND HE SAID THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO BE TIED DOWN BC HIS LAST RELATIONSHIP HE COULDNT HANG OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS SO I WAS LIKE KEWL SO HE LIKES ME AND ALL BUT WERE JUST GOING TO BE FRIENDS FRIENDS SO WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO SHOULD I JUST LET IT BE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS OR SHOULD I JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM BUT I MEAN I LIKE THE WAY THINGS ARE RIGHT NOW U KNOW BC I LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND AND AS SOMETHING ELSE SO WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE HELP SOMEONE

[sisterlynch]

You have let him know that you like him and now it is his turn to tell you how he feels about you. I think when we make ourself too available too quickly, we are often selling ourself short.

 

It is easy to do, when you are in the heat of infatuation to want to be with the other person all the time, but we all need to have a little time of separation to understand how we are feeling occasionally.

 

Try to not seek constant stimulation all the time and be ready incase he is really interested in another. People have the right to change their minds about things, don't they?

 

Don't become overly dependent upon his feelings to prove your sense of self worth. Be your own biggest advocate!