thanks or no thanks?

[stratguy620]

hey quick question. would a girl feel insulted if after a BJ the guy says thank you? I wouldnt know what else to say, but ive heard it makes a girl feel "whorish". Or would it depend on the level of the relationship? Hey by the way, what do u guys say and do after "receiving"?

[AElizabeth9244]

i've never personally given a bj, but i know that 'thank you' is not the right thing to say

[stratguy620]

well then what would be the right thing? Just I love you? and then what happens afterwards?

[Garnz]

You could always return the favour if you really want her to know how grateful you are. That or saying something like "that was F****** awesome" but not "thanks"

[Silent Man]

No not thank you. But definitely let her know that she does that very well. Just remember to appreciate it yourself and show it without neccesarily saying 'Thank You'.

[laroxes]

Let her know that she was successful beyond measure by telling her what you felt. Tell her she made your head spin or your insides tremble from your toes to your head. Tell her there is no thrill to compare to what she had just given to you. Tell her you can't think straight but you know for certainty that she is a treasure. Tell her the pleasure of that moment will comfort & excite you when you are apart & you play it back in your memory.

[neva_black_n_white]

never say thankyou, and dont always use a repetition of ''i love you'' after all things sexual, it can make a girl feel like shes being used for one purpose only, either return the favor or just make a comment on enjoying it, i guess its what you feel at the moment the tone and where abouts your girl is

 

kel

[MBMBer]

rotf this topic is funny

[Tinkerbell]

I have to agree with everyone, I don't think "thank you" is appropriate at that time. Just let the girl know how much you appreciated it and enjoyed it, and then return the favor if you're up to it. Some girls aren't comfortable with a guy going down on them, so you may want to make sure that your girl is before you try it.

[Tide]

anything but thank you. say wow. just sigh. just smile. but please don't say thank you! she didn't just polish your shoes or do your dishes! and dammit man - if you really wanna say thanks - return the favor!