gtturbo Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Im not gonna rehash my previous posts but basically me and ex have a 17 month old daughter. She chucked me out of the house 4 weeks ago and is into someone else. She strung me along for 3 weeks then when i had my daughter with me overnight she went out with this other guy then dropped me like a stone. I still have to see her most days for collecting my daughter etc and it hurts so much to see her and spoils my time with my daughter. Any ideas how to make it easier? Link to comment
knightNshiningarmor Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 I rarely give this advice but you seem to be in a situations where you need it. You need to find someone else maybe a few someone elses...you need to reevaluate yourself and know this women you married is simply a * * * * and your better off. I would strongly advise getting into the gym...force yourself...anyway you can. And i really highly recommend going out and meeting new women while your ex has the kids. Random sex can be very therapeutic after a harsh breakup where you have been tossed in the gutter. Sometimes its the only way to convince yourself that THERE are other fish in the sea. Link to comment
gtturbo Posted September 17, 2009 Author Share Posted September 17, 2009 i liek where u coming from with that not exactly the responce i was expecting lol. I'm starting at the gym tomorrow and i have been sorta seeing someone but my feelings are so confused that i dont know where my head is at. She has just replaced me like i never existed and tells me all about it with a stupid smile on her face then goes on to say how good im looking shes twisted in the head. I know i should hate her and i do but it doesnt stop the hurt. Link to comment
talo Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 You may have to see her but you do not have to talk to her do you, unless it is about the child? I can't recall how much a 17 month old can do Can your ex just open the door and your daughter comes out? Link to comment
gtturbo Posted September 17, 2009 Author Share Posted September 17, 2009 Yeh she can do that but a lot of the the time she insists on dropping her off at mine. She will then get into conversation Link to comment
talo Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Yeh she can do that but a lot of the the time she insists on dropping her off at mine. She will then get into conversation Then you insist that you do not want to talk to her. All you are interested in is your daughter; look at her; smile at her; talk to her. Link to comment
gtturbo Posted September 18, 2009 Author Share Posted September 18, 2009 she keeps cancelling when i can see my daughter aswell no please or thank you just blunt and horrible. She sends me random texts about collecting insignificant things from mine when she has my driving licence, birth certificate and lots of my stuff and claimed everything was hers. I really did get done over by this one but i can see her for what she really is now - poison. Link to comment
talo Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 I think you will need to get legal advice about this; a legal letter to her about getting your stuff back and fixed access times for you. Link to comment
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