Piercing

[chriscarlander]

How many people here have tongue piercings (or other) and how has that helped your experience?

I've found that women love the tongue piercing..... I would recommend it to anyone!

[Mythical_Suicide]

Alot of women aren't attracted to the whole tongue piercing thing.

They think that because a guy (or girl alike) has their tongue pierced it makes them better kissers or better at oral sex..

NOT! true..

I've kissed and been with guys that didn't have any and kissed better then the ones who did.

It's all in the person itself, if you are a bad kisser or bad at other things a tongue ring isn't gonna help. LOL

Sorry i'm just rambling on.. But this is coming from a "Freak" as most people see me because I have all these piercings and people think oh yea you like giving head to a guy or I get all these weird looks from people who find out I have "private" piercings they think im a street walker.. But it's nothing like that.

People make all these big deals about tongue and other piercings in general because they think it makes things so much better or that every person, girls mainly are street walkers because of it.. Well sorry guys don't believe anything you read or hear.

Once again sorry for rambling and going away from ur post but i'm just trying to make a point .. Hehe

 

-Mythical Suicide-

[neva_black_n_white]

i think having a tongue piercing can make things more sensual, why is it that you recommended it? but i believe that too many piercings can be unattractive but again it depdns on the person. still i think it would make things more sensual as i said.

 

kel

[chriscarlander]

I do find that it adds a new dimension to the act of kissing, for both persons. It becomes more of a game than just kissing, it adds a little extra fun to it.

 

But as Mythical_Suicide says, it could simply be that I'm just darned good at it!

[neva_black_n_white]

i like that idea, and thanks, i can see how that works out.

are you going to stick with the idea of being a good kisser then?

kel

[lil_unique_me]

i dont like a man to stick his tongue down my throat so i would not want a piece of metal down there

but i do think that a man with a Prince Albert is sooooooooooooooooo good. oh my god it makes things so mych better but it has to be a bar and not a ring

[neva_black_n_white]

thats a pretty unique responce, but maybe if you didnt see it as shoving a tongue down your throat but more of what it actually is, because im still waiting for someone with the ability to get their tongue completely down my throat!

 

i must be doing it wrong but if i am, i would sure as hell tell others, its that good!

kel

[lil_unique_me]

i know that its unique but hey aint that my name?! lol

im sure that you are not kissing the wrong way maybe its just the men that do all the bad kissing

agree or disagree

Catie xxx

[neva_black_n_white]

i disagree i NEVER said it was bad, its amazing, thats what point im making, maybe your doing it wrong since you dont enjoy it, i think ive mastered the art *smiles*

 

kel

[lil_unique_me]

i do enjoy kissing- too much lol. u know im sayin????

i spend too much time daydreaming about kissing this guy that i like so i never get anything done lol

Catie xxx

[neva_black_n_white]

yeah i know what your saying, going through a little phase?

 

whats happening with this man, i mean why is he only left as a fantasy, wouldnt it be that you put him in to reality and maybe bring up this dream?

 

just wondering whats preventing you

kel

[lil_unique_me]

my nerves are preventing me. he acts like hes all over me when i see him but that is so rarely. he is coming home from uni in about 2 months and i am so excited about that but im also kind of apprehensive because i really like him but although he acts as though he likes me men can send out as mixed signals as we can cant they?!

[chriscarlander]

although he acts as though he likes me men can send out as mixed signals as we can cant they?!

 

Mixed signals? Men? I don't think we do, as a rule. It's not necesary for us to rely on mixed signals as women are within their social groups. If we've got a problem, we might get into a quick fist fight over it, and then it's settled. Women are different.

You may be picking up "mixed signals" from someone, but they may not be actually sending them. Maybe your looking 'too deep' into it. My suggestion is; take it as it comes and have fun. Don't think too much of it! Just enjoy it! =)

[neva_black_n_white]

thats some good advice, i do the same where you look too far into a situation and then dont draw anything positive just because you can see negative, i like what you put and you could be right saying that you should lighten up a bit, ive yet to learn that in a few of my situations or dilennas in life.

 

thanks also

kel

[lil_unique_me]

the thing is with me right that i dont see colours i just see black.

and i always think that people are sending out mixed messages- even my frindsand that is a really big problem of mine.

Catie xxx

[chriscarlander]

the thing is with me right that i dont see colours i just see black.

and i always think that people are sending out mixed messages

 

I reckon what you're doing is creating messages that aren't there. People, uncluding women, are relatively simple creatures who behave the same way in similar situations.

If you're seeing these mixed messages 'all the time', then concentrate on their non verbal communication aka. body language. Once you start seeing these TRUE signals, life will become much easier to understand, and you rarely get these mixed messages.

 

People don't generally send mixed messages if you focus on bodylanguage, turn off 'the sound' and just watch them act! As for seeing everything in black, it'll pass.....

[lil_unique_me]

i really do think that he is sending out mixed messages but im too shy to talk to him about it so i cant do anything about it can i?

plz help me

Catie xxx