Can I please have help?

[Sam the ferret man]

Hi I'm new around here and I am going through some tough times. I am in love with this girl named Danielle and she is not very big at all in the whole relationship thing at all. I want to become more than friends but she isn't into love so should I ask her on a date should I.......

Thanks a million Sam,

[Teal]

umm....you can't force it. there really isn't any solution except to just be friends for now, and be suportive. if you push for a relationship too much, she might see it as being desperate, and won't find interest as much. on the other hand, she might. don't know, but just let her know that you care and see what she says.

[phil1981UK]

Well, if it was me I would go for it, not hit her with the whole love thing, just ask her out somewhere, tell her you like her, but keep it light hearted and fun, this way you wont scare her off.

 

I dont believe you should back away from it, give it a go, she might not be the person she is making out to be...