Feeling really down right now.

[hers]

I was interested in the specifics for comparison to my ex, actually.

Oh man...and you are telling me not to date....isn't that a bit hypocritical of you??

 

Not at all, actually. I wasn't allowing myself to date so I could work on myself. I thought I had reached a point where I was ready. Sitting accross from that guy made me realize I'm not yet ready still. Have to take more time. Not hypocritical at all. There's a difference between realizing your faults and working on them and ignoring the confrontation of them for fear of loneliness.