so what do i do if im doing NC and he keeps contacting does he want a chance

[prettyhate]

ok i am confused ive been reading all day - so now im hoping NC will start i didnt announce it im just doing it i did say to him u need to stop calling..

ok so what happens though if he realises omg i made a mistakea nd i want to fix this what do u do

will they email u this contat u about this

i have a feeling that now ive pushed him away he wont ever come back

yes he cheated yes he dumped me but now i keep thinking there is hope

when in actual fact he may nver ever contact me again

it hink he is just missing the company rather than me

he was so adamant about this decision thats waht HE wanted

so :S

i dunno anymore im going about my business

and what sthe point of no contact if you want them to know there is a chance of reconcilliation (ive already pleaded and done the stupid girl thing - the desperation plea

im so drained

[musashi]

If he knows that you love him and want him back then stick to NC unless he let's you know, without a doubt, that he wants to reconcile. Anything less is only going to cause you set back and hurt you in the long run.

[arcadefire]

So he cheated on you and dumped you?

 

And why do you want him back? Can you trust him again? Will it work the second time around?

 

Ask yourself these questions before contacting him. In the meantime, let him know what he's missing - the best thing that has ever happened to him!

[prettyhate]

so i left it with i dont know what to do about friends

and then ive now attempted no contact

he knows i would love him... i guess he may think i dont now that i said stop calling me

i will just stick with no contact

but if he keeps contacting do i need to say

are u wanting to reconcile or are you just lonely

see i dont know how to handle it

 

[prettyhate]

oh and yes i know what he did was horrendous but we just work so well

i think and hope the weight of his decision will hit him hard

[musashi]

so i left it with i dont know what to do about friends

and then ive now attempted no contact

he knows i would love him... i guess he may think i dont now that i said stop calling me

i will just stick with no contact

but if he keeps contacting do i need to say

are u wanting to reconcile or are you just lonely

see i dont know how to handle it

 

 

If he knows you are open to reconciliation then any further communication must be along those lines. If you feel that you need to tell him not to contact you unless it is to get back together then do that. Make it plain and simple. You will accept nothing less.