MissyMercer Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Title explains it all. I can't get the movement right or something... Help porfavor! Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Instead of going up and down, gyrate your clit against his lower pelvic region while he is inside you. That was where it was at for my ex. You want to "grind" on him...not pump in and out. Sorry for the lack of better words...late here Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Haha . . . you just gotta keep trying, it'll come to you. Try it when you're on your knees, try it with your feet on the floor, try it leaning forward a bit, try it leaning back a bit . . . you may even want to try it facing the other way, your back towards him (my personal favorite). I remember when I first started having sex way back when. In the beginning, it wasn't easy for me to get it right either. But you'll get it. Just keep your pleasure in mind, and you'll find a way. LoL. EDIT: As enchiladaman mentioned, you don't always have to go up and down. Grinding feels perty damn good, too. Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Haha . . . you just gotta keep trying, it'll come to you. Try it when you're on your knees, try it with your feet on the floor, try it leaning forward a bit, try it leaning back a bit . . . you may even want to try it facing the other way, your back towards him (my personal favorite). I remember when I first started having sex way back when. In the beginning, it wasn't easy for me to get it right either. But you'll get it. Just keep your pleasure in mind, and you'll find a way. LoL. EDIT: As enchiladaman mentioned, you don't always have to go up and down. Grinding feels perty damn good, too. So essentially, practice makes perfect? You gave much better and more pleasureable advise than me Look forward to your future posts Link to comment
MissyMercer Posted March 25, 2008 Author Share Posted March 25, 2008 Haha . . . you just gotta keep trying, it'll come to you. Try it when you're on your knees, try it with your feet on the floor, try it leaning forward a bit, try it leaning back a bit . . . you may even want to try it facing the other way, your back towards him (my personal favorite). I remember when I first started having sex way back when. In the beginning, it wasn't easy for me to get it right either. But you'll get it. Just keep your pleasure in mind, and you'll find a way. LoL. EDIT: As enchiladaman mentioned, you don't always have to go up and down. Grinding feels perty damn good, too. Yeah, backwards is easier for me. More fun, too. haha... thanks Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Yeah, backwards is easier for me. More fun, too. haha... thanks Yeah, and a$$-men love to watch, too! Hahaha . . . Link to comment
ghost69 Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 Yeah, and a$$-men love to watch, too! Hahaha . . . ohhh yeah. just grind back and forth rubbing urself on his body. you will know the movement. you will feel it. Link to comment
srssatellite Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 If you do it reverse-cowgirl, be sure that you don't push back with his penis straight up. That can kill an erection really fast if the penis almost gets bent. Link to comment
Alicia Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 Instead of going up and down, gyrate your clit against his lower pelvic region while he is inside you. That was where it was at for my ex. You want to "grind" on him...not pump in and out. Sorry for the lack of better words...late here this sounds so confusing and technical Link to comment
lilove Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 i have this problem too! ha ha, my ex-boyfriend used to make fun of me and say i had no rhythm (not in a mean way, it was kind of an inside joke). it's totally true though! i can never get a good rhythm going. i have a question for the guys--does it feel good when the girl's on top and she's doing more of a gyrating motion than a "pumping" motion? i know that feels good for me, but i always wonder if it's enough movement for the guy, or if he needs more friction to really get off. the reason i ask is that when a guy's on top, he's always doing the pumping motion, so i would assume that's what works best for him? it's when i try to do the "up and down" when i'm on top that things get all out of whack. wow, this is getting technical. i think i'm blushing... Link to comment
srssatellite Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 lilove, It does feel good when there's gyrating because it rubs the upper part of the penis against the vaginal walls. Though it's best, in my opinion, to mix gyrating and pumping because strictly gyrating may not give hard enough stimulation to the penis, while pumping would. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 I have never been confident on top either...i always felt like I wasn't doing it right...my husband and I usually switch to this position in the middle...If you are not that comfortable there I would start somewhere else get him all good and hard and then you can take some time to expirement with what feels good on top somewhere in the middle of the act! Link to comment
kenshinkitten Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 I'm not the best on top, but I get the job done Um start out slow so you can save your energy, just build it up. Once you start feeling it and getting into it you might go crazy a bit. Doing it in reverse cowgirl or whatever is easier to an extent, sometimes it slips out eek! But there doesn't seem to be as much work that way. Try moving not just up and down or in circles. Try ovals...iunno I hear it feels really good in girl on top. So try that and also communicate with your partner to see what he likes when you're up there. Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted March 26, 2008 Share Posted March 26, 2008 Girl gyrating on top didn't really do much for me as a guy personally. But I still love it because I see her having a good time and lets face it...it gives me two free hands and direct access to her boobs which I would take full advantage of. Then when she's done then that's usually a good time to flip her over and have my turn to go at it for a while Link to comment
Syntax Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 Instead of going up and down, gyrate your clit against his lower pelvic region while he is inside you. That was where it was at for my ex. You want to "grind" on him...not pump in and out. Sorry for the lack of better words...late here I personally, much much much much preferer the pump in and out action, dont like the grinding at all, my other male mates who ive chatted to about this are the same.... Link to comment
Syntax Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 up and down is much much much better for me personally Link to comment
lillie Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 Freestyle,a bit of everything-gives you both the best of both Link to comment
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