intrique101 Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 Hello all, I am rather to new to all of this and wondered if ya all, or at least part of ya, could offer some advice. Incase anyone missed my earlier post, I have met a woman I am very very interested in, and she too seems interested. When we are with other people there is always casual, friendly flirting between us. Including touching, bumping each other, little comments, etc. When we are alone though there is almost nothing. I can only speak for myself, but for me it is more out of nervousness that nothing happens when we are alone. The thought is there, just nothing more. I have never been one to make the first move with a guy, and have never been in this situation with a woman. I am afraid if I don't do something we will "just be friends" forever. My big delima is what can I do to get her to make the first move, or suggestions on a first move. By first move I must explain I don't want to grab her and put her in bed, I would simply like to take things to the next level...(i.e. kissing, hugging, more intimate touching) I don't want to push her if she isn't ready, but don't want us both waiting on the other. Any and all help is greatly appreciated. Thanks, intrique101 ](*,) Link to comment
akatoro Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 Hullo! Wonderful that you've met someone you like! I like holding hands, it is very nice, maybe it could work for you two as well =). And after a while of holding hands, stroking it feels good. I like that too. Or you could always "just" fix your eyes at his and look just tilt your head a little. Just like a puppy would! Make the first move with playfulness, is what I say =). It's cute and if it does not work, you'll be cute anyways. Invite him over for a movie or so and in the middle of it you make the casual yawn and discretely place your arm around his neck, or lay your head on his shoulder. And on the "puppy"-subject; you could make small noises and just give of a little bark, bump him with your shoulder and ask him what he's thinking. I wish you the best of luck in this and just to make myself clear, no, I am not taking this as a joke.. I'm just really playful =) Link to comment
Cid Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 lol, but akatoro sead just have fun that is half of the fun of Flirting. Just do what you think is right to do at the time. Link to comment
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