intrique101

Hello all, I am rather to new to all of this and wondered if ya all, or at least part of ya, could offer some advice. Incase anyone missed my earlier post, I have met a woman I am very very interested in, and she too seems interested. When we are with other people there is always casual, friendly flirting between us. Including touching, bumping each other, little comments, etc. When we are alone though there is almost nothing. I can only speak for myself, but for me it is more out of nervousness that nothing happens when we are alone. The thought is there, just nothing more. I have never been one to make the first move with a guy, and have never been in this situation with a woman. I am afraid if I don't do something we will "just be friends" forever. My big delima is what can I do to get her to make the first move, or suggestions on a first move. By first move I must explain I don't want to grab her and put her in bed, I would simply like to take things to the next level...(i.e. kissing, hugging, more intimate touching) I don't want to push her if she isn't ready, but don't want us both waiting on the other. Any and all help is greatly appreciated. Thanks, intrique101 ](*,)

I met this girl some time back, and over the past few weeks have gotten to know her better. At a party we were both at I asked her to kiss me, she wouldn't because she thought it was just the alcohol. I told her later that it wasn't just the alcohol, but that it probably did help me loosen up enough to ask her. I also found out that she has been with another woman, from what I know it was just one time. She also told me she was interested in the two of us getting together. Now for the delima... Over the weeks I have been slowly falling for her. I have told her how I feel about her, and she seems ok with it, however says that she is just afraid to get to close because she doesn't want everything to fall apart. She has had problems with relationships with men in the past, and is afraid that if we get together that the same thing will happen. I would love for her to let me in, she says she has let me in closer than anyone, but that she is just scared. Any ideas how I get her to let me in? Also neither of us is any good at making the first move when we are alone...we can casually flirt in public, but when we are alone nothing. Thanks for any and all help in advance. Intrique101