Vanezza23

I have talked to him many times and he reassures me that he loves me and is not using me, we fight about it sometimes and i say some pretty hurtful things at times which i know is terrible but he is making me feel terrible by taking so much and not giving anything back. I just have a feeling that he would not still be here if it werent for the great amenities this relationship has to offer...

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and when we first got together everything was okay. We moved in together and we split rent, groceries, utilities, everything was 50/50. Then over the summer last year we broke up for about 2 months, then got back together, in that time he lost his job and when we got back together I was paying everything, for the first month or 2 i didnt mind, because he was activly seeking out a job. Well, he still does not hvae a job and is not really looking too hard. My family and friends tell me he's using me because I have a decent amount of money, and tell me to be careful whether hes here for money or love. He says hes trying and when he gets it he'll give me everything he can but I am beginning to feel like he may just be here because its easy and free, I wonder if it was him supporting me would be still be here? I am so confused. HELP, PLEASE !