Hi, I have been married for 15 years to my husband we have 3 children together. My husband had to take a second job because we needed the money. Well he started developing this close relationship with his boss(a woman). Then I started finding out he was like an open book with her about our marriage, problems and children. She was the same way about her marriage and ect. It really hurt me terribly. She would always schedule him to work at the same time she did and late hours at night it would be just the two of them together. I'm talking 3 a.m. Finally I confronted my husband and he said they were really good friends and could talk to each other. I told him how bad it hurt me and he didn't care. He was ready to walk out on us, he said not for her because she is married. Then he told me if he could go back 15 years and she could go back he would ask her out. I told him if that was the case there would be a problem because she is 9 years younger then him and she would have been 14. Well anyway I told him he had to quit this job and stay away from her or move out. He doesn't have the money to move out so he quit. What I am wondering is he still seeing or talking to her? Because his main job is several miles away from where we live. Because when he quit he was really calm about it, my husband is not a calm person by no means. He said she had been there a few times shopping at his main job in the past. I have caught her driving by our house several times. Her husband is not a very nice person from what I hear. I ask my husband daily if he has talked to or seen her and he tells me no. He calls home all the time now, I think it is to see if I am home? He is so sneaky sometimes. He says he loves me? Even though a few weeks ago when this all came out he said he hated me, couldn't stand to be around me and wanted a divorce. Do you think he is just using me until he can get on his feet to move on. I am so confused! He is the only man I have ever kissed, loved and made love to. I love him dearly but don't trust him anymore. Can anyone help?
