HI everybody. Here is my problem and question.
My now ex wife as of jan.26, 2004 has just gotten remarried(Feb. 14, 2004) to the guy that she moved in with when she left me a few months ago. We have a 3 year old daughter together. We were married for 12 years and together fot a little over 13 years. her new husband doesn't want me to call his house at all to check on my daughter. So when the ex calls me she will say things like perfect husband, perfect father, she really misses me, she misses me alot. The day before she got married to this guy she called me up and wanted child support and I said "so you are getting married tomorrow" the phone goes silent for a few seconds then she starts to cry and says yes i told you that. she then says "someday and someway we will be together again." Keep in mind also that she is 2 1/2 months pregnant by this guy. I asked her why she was getting married then and she said she has to. I said why because your pregnant. she says yes. I told her that is no reason to get married to him. You left me for him and we have a daughter together. So don't marry him for that reason. Now for my question: I really do still love her with all my heart even after everything that she has done. What do I make out of all this? Do I try talking to her,That is if she will talk to me , because after she says these things she gets bitter and cold towards me. It is like she can turn her emotions on and off at will. If so how to I get her to talk or how do I let the one true love of my life go. Keep in mind also that I never did hit, cheat or not be there for her when it counted the most. My whole life was my family. She keeps me very confused And emotional. Help a desperate man find the way out of this. If not then just some good old advice.
Thanks for reading my letter .
