My ex and I had only been dating for a couple of months when he suddenly changed. Everything was perfect. He treated me better than I'd ever been treated by anyone in my entire life. He was even excited to introduce me to his parents and his friends cuz he knew they would love me. Three weeks ago, after I'd come back from being out of town (and had a miserable time), he tells me that he doesn't think he can be in a relationship with me anymore. He said that I deserved someone better, someone that would make me happy. I'd been getting a little upset with him recently because his behavior was changing without any good reason. He used to barely keep his hands off me and in the end I felt like I had to throw myself at him. He sat me down and told me that he does in fact want to be with me, but he needs some alone time so he can figure some things out (and another thing that bothers me is that he doesn't talk to me about his problems...he's very introverted). The biggest problem is that 4 days ago I found out i've been pregnant with his baby for a month. According to mutual friends, he's been acting like he doesn't have a care in the world. Basically he wants me to get an abortion and get all this out of the way so he doesn't have to deal with anything. I'm not even sure why I want him back, but right now I need him. I need his support and affection and he isn't giving it to me. The least he could do is acknowledge that he's the father of my first child and always will be. Please tell me what I can do to try to make things more bearable.
