First off,
You people who are reading this just for kicks need to go get lives... Joanie, has a real issue and so do the rest of the girls in here that are confiding with someone that understands them.
You have no idea what it is like to experience something like this and until you do you have no right to tell them what to do.
However, you are all probably correct when you say that just the mere fact that your boyfriend and or husbands will actually act upon their sexual urges with their own sisters is probably a little far-fetched...but it doesn't change the fact that YOU have to deal with these harbored sexual feelings that he may or may not have for his sister or vice versa?? And the fact that he called you by his sister's name... that would disturb me to... and probably any other woman... even the woman who yelled at her black shirt! Your man calling you any other name but your own will probably bother you! The fact that it was his sister's name is just more perturbing. Sounds like a Freudian slip to me people...
The only sort of advice to give in this sort of situation is either a) grin and bear it or b) leave him...because there is no way he's going to stop it.
