Tyler

Hi >I thought I might be able to at least offer some comforting thoughts. We're both going through much the same situation. Im about 2months into it though. What I've learned is that there's no need to dwell on what you could have done differently. I can say that begging and pleading, if you've come to that point, gets you now where. Really try and go with the flow of things. I've learned that you can't force someone to love you either. I really feel that love will find a way. Take comfort in knowing that if its meant to be, it wil be, someday. I've been trying to get this, "how do i win her back" idea out of my head. For me I think the best thing is time. I've been wondering if I'd ever be able to find someone so beautiful and fun as this girl, something tells me its possible. And its either going to be her or someone else. But at least I'll be a better person and happy as hell when that time comes. I'm going to take this time apart to evaluate myself and my life. The three years we were together, im only 23 by the way, I never focused on what I was going to do with my life, thats fairly important(really important). I feel we would have had to eventually take time apart from eachother anyway, to grow as people. And try try try not to think about this friend of hers. it just adds to the insanity. Thats it i guess, you'll make it.