Kalel83

I recently posted about whether or not I should move on, and I have come to decide that at this point in time I can't really answer that question. I'm going by what I feel, and what I feel is that I love this person and I want to hold on to my feelings, even if I'm going to be waiting for a while. Does anyone know of any books, and people I can speak to that would have advice on how to deal with age/distance relationships We live 10 hours away from each other (7 hours if I go 95 on the freeway) and we don't get to see each other more then once a month. I want to be able to use resources that will help me grow so I can make a decision based on my feelings, being able to identify if I'm just addicted and rationalizing, or if I truly do care for this person. Time is what I seem to have and I will try my best to make use of it, but what books have you come accross have ideas dealing with relationships with people that are years apart. If I'm just to emotionally unadvanced we will learn that in time, but what I am asking is for information from people who have been through age gap relationships and have put them to the test. I want to know the issues they dealt with, so I can talk about it with her perhaps. So we can grow. Some background is we have known each other 3 years, been together about 8 months, decided we didn't know enough about us so we are seeing other people now. I'm 20, she is 38. Yes, I know that is an age difference, a big one, but if you are in something that you believe in, and the people you are with believes in it, how am I supposed to move on because of a technicality?

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