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Well, I posted not to long ago that I was debating telling my best friend of 5 years that I love her. She has since been pressuring me to tell her how I feel, its kind of caught me off guard and I'm unsure what to do. In response to your question I really don't think that there is a point of no return. I think it just depends on the person. I mean things that happen daily impact how you feel.

Well we did have a thing during the third year we knew each other, but we said we had to stop because we didn't want to hurt a close friend.

I think that I'm in love with my best friend. I have known her for 5 years and I don't know if I should tell her or not. We spend most if not all of our free time together. Throughout the years I have watched her date and she has watched me, but we still end up sitting around and talking about our past relationships. She recently got out of a relationship and then asked why didn't I tell her that it wasn't working out, she was always unhappy with the guy and I knew it. She calls me at least twice a week to see if I am coming out to her house to spend time with her. I give advice, but I don't like getting to involved because I have a bias opinion. She always complains that she's going to be alone and I just want to tell her so bad that I want to be with her. I had to fight the urge this past weekend to tell her that I love her. One of my concerns is that if I tell her and she doesn't feel the same way then I may be out a friend or I could pass up the chance for happiness. I'm supposed to be going out of town with her this weekend to her B-n-L's wedding. It is getting so hard to be around her and wanting to be closer to her and not knowing how she feels. So any advice you could give would be appreciated.