Hello. I met my husband in high school and we have been together for almost 10 years now. For the past 10 years he has never been able to keep a job. His parents and brothers have the same problem. We have a son who is now 6 and for the first 4 years of his life he stayed home and took care of him while I went to work. 2 years ago I found out that I suffered from manic depression and I had to quit my job. I began collecting disability and he worked for a short time. I became pregnant again and when my daughter was born 1 year ago he was laid off, ever since he has not returned to work, so he worked all together for about 6 months! So we are both living off of our parents and my disability money. I have been thinking about returning to work but Im scared of getting really sick again, I need my health to care for my children. Also, I dont think I could make more money now than I receive with disability since I can't work in such a stressful environment. He doesnt have any friends, he doesnt go out, he just wants to be with us all the time. He's not a bad person, he is very good to my children and me. I don't know what to do to get him motivated. My children deserve better financially! Please help!
